I think it’s subjective. Ever since I joined Toastmasters, and now that I do a lot of speaking and training for my work I pay attention to every speaker I see – amateur, professional or TV personality.
The most popular feedback I often hear at a Toastmasters meeting includes:
- Slow down
- Step away from the podium
- Try not to use notes
- Too many ums and ahs (filler words), try pausing instead
When I first joined the group I didn’t know any better and thought those comments were the truth. But what I’ve learned over the last few years about what makes a great speaker (and great can be many things – inspirational, funny, educational, motivational) depends on several factors.
For me, two of the most important factors to being a great speaker are:
- Knowing the purpose of the speech
- Knowing your personal style
Take a moment to think about some of the speakers you’ve heard recently (in person, on TV) – can you think of anything in particular about their style?
I always think of Ellen DeGeneres. When she speaks she has a lot of ums/ahs. It’s part of her style and for me it’s part of what makes her so funny. In that case, the ums/ahs work to her advantage.
The bottom line (in my opinion) – if you want to be a great speaker consider the following:
- Know your topic/speech audience – are you speaking to corporate executives or the general public? Kids or adults? This will help you develop the appropriate speech content and meet expectations of the crowd or your client.
- Know the speech purpose – Are you there to inspire, motivate, education, add humor? As you develop your speech make sure it does what it’s supposed to do.
- Find your personal style – Figure out what style makes you comfortable (humor, inspiration, behind the podium, using notes) and do that. Make appropriate adjustments depending on your audience. When you are comfortable you’ll be less nervous and more effective as a speaker.
- Practice – not just a specific speech, but find opportunities to practice where ever you go! If you are nervous, staying away from doing it will not help you improve your skills.
Toastmasters is the perfect opportunity to practice consistently. With scheduled meetings and a variety of opportunities to participate, it’s a safe, fun and motivating environment to improve your skills and find your personal style.
Check out the Hanover Toastmasters at our next meeting on Monday January 7, 2008, 6pm. See details to the right of this post in the side bar.
Contact me with any questions – stacey@letitflowfitness.com
